Essays

A collection of reflective essays on identity, resilience, culture and the quiet moments that shape our lives.

New essay published every Sunday.

When Did Being Busy Become a Badge of Honour? | Kandidly Kay

A reflection on busyness, productivity and why having time to rest might be a better measure of a full life than having a full diary. Somewhere along the way, “busy” became shorthand for successful, important and needed.

When Did Being Busy Become a Badge of Honour? | Kandidly Kay

Why Does Applying for a Job Now Feel Like The Hunger Games?

A funny, sharp reflection on modern recruitment, endless interview stages and why candidates deserve more respect in the hiring process.

Why Does Applying for a Job Now Feel Like The Hunger Games?

Topics explored here include identity, grief, healing,

self-worth, resilience and the quiet work of personal growth.